We all know the classic things that guy’s do that will give you an attracted gleam in the eye. But what about all those little things that he unconsciously does without thinking that it might be immensely attractive.
He is smart
Okay maybe this isn’t so surprising, perhaps I’m just warming you up. When your man can string his words together without fumbling or sounding pseudo-intellectual, it’s undeniably hot. If your partner reads classic novels and is interested in magazines entitled cosmos or science today, it’s natural to feel impressed and attracted. This is especially true if he is comfortable and confident in his intelligence and doesn’t feel the need to broadcast it through geeky glasses or the dreaded tweed jacket.
He’s a fixer
Maybe it’s just our genetic needs talking but if your man can easily construct that IKEA desk you’ve been puzzling over all morning or he knows exactly what to do if the car breaks down in the middle of nowhere, it’s hot. There is something primal and powerfully attractive about a man who knows how to repair things. This is especially true in this digital revolution age where we have lost so many of the basic hand-bound skills which were previously considered essential mate requirements in the past.
He is an unconsciously good person
This might appear obvious to any female readers but to the male population, this particular fact doesn’t crop up in the book of flirting tricks. If your man is polite and talkative with waiters, listens to performances and donates some change at the end, helps old people or the disadvantaged with luggage or offers them seats, he’s hot. The ultimate attraction is if he is good with kids and plays with them unconsciously. You are not just looking for physical attraction, smarts or a repairman in a prospective partner. Who your partner is as a person is an integral reason for your own attraction and you get to show off what a good man he is.
He can plan things
You don’t need to act like his mother and plan holidays, journeys or times to buy flights. If your man knows how to do these things and doesn’t make a fuss of it, he is immediately showing a nurturing, confident ability to take care of you and keep things together. Of course this doesn’t have to be a one sided affair and I’m well aware that no one needs a man to take care of them. However, it is a very welcome and desirable trait to have in your guy.
The attracting actions that guys do will vary for each woman, how you view a potential partner or lover is entirely up to you. However, there is something that you might not even realize guys do that can be attracting to you. Next time you are eyeing off that attractive hunk at the gym or over the counter maybe you should keep a close eye on them to see if they fit any of the above criteria. It’s also important to realize that even if a guy displays none of the above qualities, he still might be perfect in other ways. Never discount someone because they don’t fit all the boxes.
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