When the idea of dirty talk is brought up it elicits several different reactions in people. Some people giggle, others become embarrassed and other people start getting turned on at the mere mention of the concept. Talking dirty is something many couples think about however; few people implement it as dirty talk is seen as a taboo topic. Dirty talk can be the perfect way to spice up your love life with the addition certain words or phrases which you have been longing to hear during your intimate and passionate moments. Introducing dirty talk with your partner can be a tricky task but here are 5 hot tips to help galvanise your sex life.
Embrace the fact that dirty talk is erotic
It’s not just the taboo nature of dirty talk that makes it such an exciting thing to do in the bedroom. Generally speaking, men and women have some nuances to the ways in which they get aroused. Men enjoy listening to descriptions of what they want to do and have done to them by their partner while women prefer to visualise and absorb the words and imagine what they mean and how they will feel. By talking dirty sex can be transformed from routine to mind blowing, primal passion which will do wonders for any relationship.
Strengthen your emotional connection with your partner
Talking dirty can even provide a greater feeling of closeness and love as you are not only opening up your body to your partner but also your thoughts. You can use dirty talk to break down barriers in the bedroom and make your partner feel more confident in enacting his or her wildest fantasies. There is no reason why you shouldn’t be allowed to talk freely in the bedroom. However, it is a good idea that you raise the topic of introducing dirty talk with your partner. This is especially true if you plan to use name calling as a form of dirty talk which can be a turn off for some people.
Introduce dirty talk gradually
It might be confronting and unattractive to act a whole new way in the bedroom one night without any hinting anything to your partner or giving them any preparation. There are several ways to begin introducing your partner to dirty talk. After steamy nights together you can message her the next day telling her exactly what you liked and what you want to do to her next time you are together.
Know when dirty talk is appropriate
Not every sexual night spent with your partner should be the same. If you talk dirty during sex all the time, it is likely you will both get sick of the act and begin to feel more like pornstars then partners. It is imperative that you realise that lovemaking and tender affection are just as important as hot, sexy passion.
As you progress further into a sexual awakening like no other, you will master the art of orally pleasuring your partner in more ways than one (pun intended). Dirty talk is just one of many ways to keeping your love life fresh and exciting. Dirty talk is a powerful, sexy concept which has the potential to ignite young love or passion and both cause and save a marriage.